Coney Island Of My Mind

Posted on Feb 20, 2017 in USA | No Comments

Coney Island visit

The world is a beautiful place

to be born into

if you don’t mind happiness

not always being

so very much fun

if you don’t mind a touch of hell

now and then

just when everything is fine

because even in heaven

they don’t sing

all the time

(excerpt from A Coney Island Of The Mind, a collection of poems by Lawrence Ferlinghetti)

visiting Coney Island

I used to visit New York frequently after I graduated from college. My friend Kabir (who I recently spent time with in India) lived in Brooklyn and always welcomed me into his life on weekends when I was desperate to flee Boston. For a couple of years, I went multiple times a month and my social circles in Boston and Brooklyn bled into each other. But Kabir moved back to Bangalore and my life in Boston held me a bit tighter and then I moved to Istanbul; before this summer, the last time I’d visited New York City was in early 2012.

I went this summer to visit my friend Alison, the New York half of our Istanbul-NYC double exposures project. I had only one request: I wanted to visit Coney Island.

visiting Coney Island

visiting Coney Island

Coney Island is the colorful scribbling in the margins of Brooklyn, the muse of Lawrence Ferlinghetti’s poetry, the mad carnival at the end of the line. I’d never been. Alison has been often, and her photographs of amusement park rides and offbeat boardwalk life hooked me. It was summer and the days were long and we made a plan to spend the day in a Coney Island state of mind.

We took the F train to nearly the end and reached the beach, obscured under the churning colors of humanity. People flock to Coney Island on sunny summer weekends, eager to wade into the water or eat orange soft serve cones, and every spare spot of sand was covered with rainbow umbrellas and plush towels and plastic beach toys and bodies.

Wading in the water at Coney

visiting Coney Island

What a thrill. Coney Island is pitch and motion, color and cacophony. Maybe it would be a sensory overload if I lived anywhere but Istanbul; instead, it felt comfortable to be surrounded by noisy chaos, by the swoosh of airborne rides and the bells and whistles of games and the honking New Yawk accents and the keening of crying children. Coney Island is saturated with sound and sights and smells. I adored it.

Except for one small moment.

visiting Coney Island

Alison and I wandered through the carnival and arcade games that cluster together at Coney Island, chatting and photographing. There was a loud bang and I leapt, spun around frantically to make sure nothing had happened. Nothing had happened– it was just a loud noise from one of the games– but I realized nobody else had reacted like that.

I was in Coney Island three weeks after Turkey’s coup and that small moment among the arcade games made me realize that living in Turkey had affected me, maybe more than I was admitting to myself. I watched the pulse of humanity blissfully cram together amid the loud noises and hot sun and felt a pang of jealousy that they could do that without even a small twinge of fear.

These are the two polarities I hold in my head: a craving for energy and chaos and busy bursts of people in strange colorful worlds, and a wariness of the same thing.

visiting Coney Island

I loved the place. I would love to go back, for that late summer madness, for ice cream cones and laughter among the beachseekers of New York City. But when I think of my time there, this splinter of a memory is what sticks out. Ferlinghetti got it. For better or for worse, this is my Coney Island of the mind.

Yes the world is the best place of all

for a lot of such things as

making the fun scene

and making the love scene

and making the sad scene

and singing low songs and having inspirations

and walking around

looking at everything

and smelling flowers

and goosing statues

and even thinking

and kissing people and

making babies and wearing pants

and waving hats and


and going swimming in rivers

on picnics

in the middle of the summer

and just generally

‘living it up’


but then right in the middle of it

comes the smiling


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